He told me that its a horrible movie because "Robin Williams" was lying to his kids and is a creep for being a woman and tricking his wife so he could be around his kids. Doubtfire tonight and he constantly telling me how horrible the movie is, he Googled what others were saying about the movie and telling me what they said while agreeing with them. I've recently been called the "C-word," "Weak" (because I started crying), "Stupid" (that was tonight), "You wear your heart on your sleeve that is why you're weak." We were watching Miss. *Both women and men could be abusers or victims, so do not take my pronoun choices as an implication that one gender abuses and the other is victimized. You can also find Kellie on her website at Verbal Abuse Journals, and social media pages on Google+, Facebook and Twitter. Justice For Abuse Survivors (scroll half way down).No one here will judge you for staying (I've been there and it can feel hopeless!), but please work on ways to make yourself feel better in the process. Maybe in time you'll choose to leave your abuser, and maybe you'll choose to stay. If you're still living in this nonsense, learn about detachment and how it can benefit you. My stomach is literally upset right now after digesting the utter contempt and hatred some people spew on a daily basis. Accuse you of being a whore or a dummy or a _ so often that they no longer need to say the words but can offer up a "look" and you know what they're saying (then they may deny it).Change the topic of the conversation so you bounce from one place to another, never getting to the core of the issue.Tell your children you need more happy pills to be a good mom.Take you out for your best birthday ever and then wind up berating you on the way home for not appreciating their efforts enough.Leave to do something else at the last minute when you had plans together. Flip open their knife to open a piece of gum while looking at you under knitted brows.Talk horribly to the television but are really speaking to you.Block you in a room so you can't leave and thereby avoid what they're saying.Analyze what they've said out loud, explaining that the words they used do not have the definitions you seem to think they do.Deny they said anything similar to the list above.
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